ONE ANOTHER/EACH OTHER – NEW TESTAMENT COMMANDS
ONE ANOTHER
Greek: allelous – means “everyone to everyone” i.e it must be exhaustively
reciprocal, which means that it refers to something that every single person
does to every single other person. But the word is used in many other contexts
where it doesn’t mean “everyone to everyone”, but “some to others.” Eg. In
Galatians 6:2, “Bear one another’s burdens” means not “everyone should exchange
burdens with everyone else,” but “some who are more able should help bear the
burdens of others who are less able.”
It is important
in life that we treat others the way we ourselves want to be treated.
There are many people in this world who are the center of their own universe
and the only thing that matters to them is what someone else can do to better
their life. We should never fall into this mentality of only wanting for
ourselves and not pay any attention to the feelings or benefits of those around
us. The Lord Jesus declares in Luke 6:31 “And just as you want men to do
to you, you also do to them likewise.” When the Lord was on the earth,
the only thing He wanted to do was help others. We must not be a
respecter of persons, but rather treat all people equally with the same love
that Jesus our example showed to all whom He came into contact with.
Jesus healed
the blind and crippled, set free those who were oppressed of the devil and
forgave the sins of those who fell before Him. Jesus never looked for His
own benefit and as our example calls us to do the same. (Romans 1:21-25) (John
6:38-40) (John 6:2) (Matthew 8:16-17) (Matthew 10:7-8)
1.
a] BE DEVOTED
b] HONOR ONE ANOTHER
Romans 12:10 Be
devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.
[NIV]
2.
LIVE IN HARMONY
Live in harmony
with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of
low position. Do not be conceited. [NIV] Romans 12:16
3.
OFFER HOSPITALITY
Offer
hospitality to one another without grumbling. [NIV] 1 Peter 4:9
4.
a] BE KIND AND MERCIFUL
b] FORGIVE EACH OTHER
Instead be kind
and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ.
[Contemporary English Version] Ephesians 4:32
5.
SUBMIT TO ONE ANOTHER
Submit to one
another out of reverence for Christ. [NIV] Ephesians 5:21
6.
ACCEPT ONE ANOTHER
Accept one
another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.
[NIV] Romans 15:7
7.
INSTRUCT ONE ANOTHER
I myself am
convinced, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, complete in
knowledge and competent to instruct one another. [NIV] Romans 15:14
8.
STOP PASSING JUDGMENT ON ONE ANOTHER
Therefore let us
stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any
stumbling block or obstacle in your brothers way. [NIV] Romans 14:13
9.
WASH ONE ANOTHER’S FEET
Now that I,
your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one anothers
feet. [NIV] John 13:14
10.
SERVE ONE ANOTHER IN LOVE
You, my
brothers were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the
sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love. [NIV] Galatians 5:13
11.
HUMBLE, GENTLE, PATIENT WITH ONE ANOTHER
Be completely
humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. [NIV]
Ephesians 4:2
12.
a] BE TOLERANT WITH ONE ANOTHER
b] FORGIVE ONE ANOTHER
be tolerant with
one another and forgive one another whenever any of you has a complaint against
someone else. You must forgive one another just as the Lord has forgiven you.
[Todays English Version] Colossians 3:13
13.
a] ENCOURAGE ONE ANOTHER
b] BUILD EACH OTHER
Therefore
encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
[NIV] 1 Thessalonians 5:11
14.
SPUR ONE ANOTHER
And let us
consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. [NIV]
Hebrews 10:24
15.
DO NOT SLANDER ONE ANOTHER
Brothers, do not
slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his brother or judges him speaks
against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it,
but sitting in judgment on it. [NIV] James 4:11
16.
a] BE SUBJECT ONE TO ANOTHER
b] CLOTHE YOURSELVES WITH HUMILITY
Likewise, ye
younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to
another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth
grace to the humble. [KJV] 1 Peter 5:5
17.
FELLOWSHIP WITH ONE ANOTHER
But if we walk
in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and
the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. [NIV] 1 John 1:7
18.
COMFORT ONE ANOTHER
1 Thessalonians
4:18 Therefore, comfort one another with these words [Worldwide English]
19.
a] COMFORT ONE ANOTHER
b] STRENGTHEN ONE ANOTHER
1 Thessalonians
5:11 So comfort and strengthen one another, just as you are doing. You to
respect those who are working among you. They are your leaders in the Lord’s
work, and they tell you what you should do. [Worldwide English]
20.
DISCUSSED WITH ONE ANOTHER
They discussed
this with one another and said, It is because we have no bread. [NIV] Mark 8:16
21.
LUST FOR ONE ANOTHER
In the same way
the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust
for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in
themselves the due penalty for their perversion. [NIV] Romans 1:27
22.
DO NOT QUARREL WITH EACH OTHER
The leaders of the
Jews began to quarrel with each other about what Jesus said. They said, How can
he give us himself to eat? [Worldwide English Bible] John 6:52
23.
a] BITE AND DEVOUR EACH OTHER
b] DESTROYED BY EACH OTHER
If you keep on
biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each
other. [NIV] Galatians 5:15
24.
HELP ONE ANOTHER
What shall we do
about it, my brothers? When you meet together, every one of you has something
to help the other. One has a song to sing. One has something to teach people.
One has something which God has shown to him. One has something to say in a
tongue. One can tell the meaning of a tongue. Do all these things to help one
another. [Worldwide English] 1 Corinthians 14:26
25.
GREET ONE ANOTHER
Greet one another
with a holy kiss. All the churches of Christ send greetings. [NIV] Romans 16:16
26.
FAITH IN ONE ANOTHER
and that is, that
I may be comforted together among you, through the faith in one another, both
yours and mine. [Youngs Literal Translation] Romans 1:12
27.
GUIDE TO ANOTHER
And he gave them
teaching in the form of a story, saying, Is it possible for one blind man to be
guide to another? Will they not go falling together into a hole? [The Bible in
Basic English] Luke 6:39
28.
WAIT FOR ONE ANOTHER
So then, my
brethren, when you come together to eat, Wait for one another. [NASB] 1
Corinthians 11:33
29.
DO NOT LIE TO ONE ANOTHER
Do not lie to one
another, since you laid aside the old self with its evil practices. [NASB]
Colossians 3:9
30.
a] CONFESS YOUR SINS TO ONE ANOTHER
b] PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER
Therefore,
confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be
healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much. [NASB]
James 5:16
31.
AGREE WITH ONE ANOTHER
I appeal to you,
brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one
another so that there may be no divisions among you and that you may be
perfectly united in mind and thought. [NIV] 1 Corinthians 1:10
32.
REGARD ONE ANOTHER
Do nothing from
selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as
more important than yourselves. [NASB] Philippians 2:3
33.
LIVE IN PEACE WITH ONE ANOTHER
and that you
esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Live in peace with one
another. [NASB] 1 Thessalonians 5:13
34.
SEEK AFTER THAT WHICH IS GOOD FOR ONE ANOTHER
See that no one repays another with evil
for evil, but always seek after that which is good for one another and for all
people. [NASB] 1 Thessalonians 5:15
35.
a] PROVOKING ONE ANOTHER
b] ENVYING ONE ANOTHER
Let us not be
desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another. [KJV]
Galatians 5:26
36.
FAVORITISM
But if you treat
one person as being more important than another, you are sinning. You are
guilty of breaking Gods law. [New Century Version} James 2:9
37.
PART OF ONE ANOTHER
A body is made up
of many parts, and each of them has its own use. That’s how it is with us.
There are many of us, but we each are part of the body of Christ, as well as
part of one another. Romans 12:4-5
38.
DISTRIBUTE AMONG ONE ANOTHER
Making
distribution among one another of whatever has been given to you, like true
servants of the unmeasured grace of God. [The Bible in Basic English] 1 Peter
4:10
39.
a] CLOSE FELLOWSHIP
b] SHARED THEIR BELONGINGS WITH ONE
ANOTHER
All the
believers continued together in close fellowship and shared their belongings
with one another. [Todays English Version] Acts 2:44
40.
GRUDGE NO ONE AGAINST ANOTHER
Grudge not one
against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth
before the door. [The Webster Bible] James 5:9
41.
COMPASSION ONE OF ANOTHER
Finally, be ye
all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be
pitiful, be courteous. [KJV] 1 Peter 3:8
42.
DISAGREEMENT WITH ONE ANOTHER
And when they did
not agree with one another, they began leaving after Paul had spoken one
parting word, The Holy Spirit rightly spoke through Isaiah the prophet to your
fathers. Acts 28:25
43.
a] BETRAY ONE ANOTHER
b] HATE ONE ANOTHER
At the time
many will fall away and will betray one another and hate one another. [NASB]
Matthew 24:10
44.
DO NOT SEEK PRAISE FROM MEN
How can you
believe if you accept praise from one another, yet make no effort to obtain the
praise that comes from the only God? [NIV] John 5:44
45.
STEPPING ON ONE ANOTHER
Under these
circumstances, after so many thousands of people had gathered together that
they were stepping on one another, He began saying to his disciples first of
all, Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy. [NASB] Luke 12:1
46.
a] TEACH ONE ANOTHER
b] ADMONISH ONE ANOTHER
Let the word of
Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all
wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in
your hearts to God. [NIV] Colossians 3:16
47.
SEPARATE THE PEOPLE ONE FROM ANOTHER
All the nations
will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another
as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. [NIV] Matthew 25:32
48.
LOVE ONE ANOTHER
Dear friends, let
us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born
of God and knows God. [NIV] 1 John 4:7
49.
ABOUND IN LOVE TOWARD ONE ANOTHER
But you, may the
Lord make to exceed and abound in love toward one another, and toward all, even
as we also towards you. [Darby Translation] 1 Thessalonians 3:12
50.
STARED AT ONE ANOTHER
His disciples
stared at one another, at a loss to know which of them he meant. [NIV] John
13:22
51.
SPEAKING TO ONE ANOTHER
Speaking to one
another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in
your heart to the Lord. [Third Millenium Bible] Ephesians 5:19
52.
HATED AND HATING ONE ANOTHER
At one time we too were foolish,
disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We
lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. [NIV] Titus 3:3
53.
FAREWELL TO ONE ANOTHER
When our days
there were ended, we left and started on our journey, while they all, with
wives and children, escorted us until we were out of the city. After kneeling
down on the beach and praying, we said farewell to one another. [NASB] Acts
21:5
54.
ASKED ONE ANOTHER
Amazed and perplexed, they asked one
another, What does this mean? [NIV] Acts 2:12
55.
CALLING TO ONE ANOTHER
They are like
children sitting in the market place, calling to one another saying, We played
music for you, but did not dance; we sang a sad song, but you did not cry. [New
Century Version] Acts 7:32
56.
TALKING WITH ONE ANOTHER
They left the
room, and while talking with one another, they said, This man is not doing
anything that deserves death or imprisonment. [NIV] Acts 26:31
57.
SAYING/SAID TO ONE ANOTHER
So the
Pharisees said to one another, See, this is getting us no where. Look how the
whole world has gone after him! [NIV] John 12:9
58.
a] FRIENDS WITH ONE ANOTHER
b] ENEMIES WITH EACH OTHER
Now Herod and
Pilate became friends with one another that very day for before they had been
enemies with each other. [NASB] Luke 23:12
59.
MEMBERS OF ONE ANOTHER
Wherefore,
having put off falsehood, speak truth everyone with his neighbor, because we
are members one of another. [Darby Translation] Ephesians 4:25
60.
SAME CONCERN ONE FOR ANOTHER
That
there might be no division in the body, but that the members might have the
same concern one for another. [Darby Translation] 1 Corinthians 12:25
61.
CHARGES AGAINST ONE ANOTHER
So then, if Demetrius and the craftsmen
who are with him have a complaint against any man, the courts are in session
and proconsuls are available; let them bring charges against one another.
[NASB] Acts 19:38
62.
ACCUSING OR ELSE EXCUSING ONE ANOTHER
Which shew the work of the law written
in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and their thoughts the
mean while accusing or else excusing one another. [KJV] Romans 2:15
63.
BUILDING UP OF ONE ANOTHER
So then let us
pursue the things which make for peace and the building up of one another.
[NASB] Romans 14:19
64.
MOCKED HIM TO ONE ANOTHER
So also the
chief priests mocked him to one another with the scribes, saying, He saved
others; he cannot save himself. [RSV] Mark 15:31
65.
STOP DEPRIVING ONE ANOTHER
Stop depriving one another, except by
agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and to come
together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control. [NASB] 1 Corinthians 7:5
66.
LAWSUITS WITH ONE ANOTHER
Actually, then, it is already a defeat
for you, that you have lawsuits with one another. Why not rather be wronged?
Why not rather be defrauded? [NASB] 1 Corinthians 6:7
67.
VIE WITH ONE ANOTHER
Brethren, vie
with one another in imitating me, and carefully observe those who follow the
example which we have set you. [Wesleys New Testament] Philippians 3:17
68.
ADHERING TO ONE ANOTHER
Dependent on Him, the whole body-its
various parts closely fitting and firmly adhering to one another – grows by the
aid of every contributory link, with power proportioned to the need, of each
individual part, so as to build itself up in a spirit of love. [Wesleys New
Testament] Ephesians 4:16
69.
JEALOUS OF EACH OTHER
You still love the spirit of this world
in you. You are jealous of each other and you are quarrelling. The spirit of
this world is still in you and you live like people of this world. [Worldwide
Bible] 1 Corinthians 3:3
70.
WRONG EACH OTHER
And on the following day he appeared to them
as they were quarreling and would have reconciled them, saying, Men, you are
brethren, why do you wrong each other? [Revised Standard Version] Acts 7:25-27
71.
a] DON’T YELL AT ONE ANOTHER
b] DON’T CURSE EACH OTHER
Stop being
bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse each
other or ever be rude. [Contemporary English Version] Ephesians 4:31
72.
LOVE ONE ANOTHER DEEPLY
Now that you
have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for
your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart. [NIV] 1 Peter 1:22
73.
a] CARRY EACH OTHER’S BURDEN
b] EACH ONE SHOULD CARRY HIS OWN LOAD
Carry each
others burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. [NIV]
Galatians 6:2
74.
LAY DOWN OUR LIVES
1 John 3:16 This is how we know what love
is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives
for one another. [NIV Thematic Study Bible].
Acts 17:11 The people in Berea were much
nicer than those in Thessalonica, and they gladly accepted the message. Day
after day they studied the Scriptures to see if these things were true.
[Contemporary English Version]
I would
encourage you all to do your own personal bible study. Other people’s work may
be helpful to our growth but it is not a substitute for our own bible study.
[Knowledge that is not applied is dangerous, that is why they say ignorance is
bliss – but they have not read ‘people perish for lack of vision/knowledge’]
There are many
ways to study and meditate on Gods Word. Above is an example of a how one may
do an in-depth study. It will be interesting to concise the whole study into
one short essay, sermon or bible study. You may have never thought about it,
why don’t you give it a try?